Day 3 of my writing saga. My resolution to write everyday got broken the very next day it was made. Not because of lack of time but because of laziness. So, here on Day 3, writing stuff that was supposed to be written yesterday. Who cares, you may ask. Its not like there is deadline to be met or some superior who will check right? But still, once a commitment is made it should be met. Even if the commitment is to self. Especially if the commitment is to self. Trying to stick to this commitment to myself. Slowly but surely I will get there.
On that note here goes……
Memory…..Boon or Bane
While using my Husband’s phone, I stumbled upon his Whats App and was astonished to find that he had groups with his classmates – right from his kindergarten days to his college graduation. The astonishing part was not that he is in touch with his friends but that he actually remembers each and every one of them. He even remembers all the teachers who have taught him, again from kindergarten to college. Apart from a few who can be counted in the fingers of my hand, for the life of me I cannot remember any of my school mates, or my teachers for that matter. I am not in touch with any but can recall a few. It is this realisation of the difference between him and me that triggered my thoughts into the direction of the title – Memory…boon or bane
Memory is the ability of our brain to categorise and store information that we gather in our lifetime. Memories, on the other hand, are recollections of specific events or occurrences. Life, as we know it, is a series of memories. If not for them, we would not learn and grow. It is from the memory of our past mistakes that we correct ourselves and evolve. It can also cause us heartache and make us emotional wrecks. Each moment we live is stored as a memory in our subconscious. And it is these that shape our character and create the path of our life. Not everyone is born with same amount of memory power. The recall ability varies from person to person.
So is having good memory a boon or bane? Like everything else in life, there is no one correct answer for this. If individuals are able to understand, interpret and apply the learning from the past, then having good memory power is a boon. On the other hand if the person holds on to the past and looks at everything with nostalgia, keeps making same mistakes as in the past, constantly replays in mind the failure and hurt suffered in the past then that person becomes an emotional wreck. They cause grief to themselves and to those around them. For such people memory becomes a bane.
Memories are the road map of our lives. Recalling these show us the path we have travelled and help us in making choices for our future. Having good memory power is good if we are able to let go of the bad memories.